Who's Keeping You Stuck?

Stuck is a term used by so many of us in so many ways but it is a universal feeling of not making progress, not moving forward, not being able to make your tomorrow look different from today.

What can be frustrating for you is when you know you’re stuck yet somehow you’re unable to make the shift you would like to see for yourself. 

In this episode, we want to talk with you about who is keeping you stuck, yes I said who, because ladies, your growth can trigger so many emotions within others and we want to bring awareness to it and share ideas on how to navigate it.

Addressing the WHO that’s keeping you stuck will not be easy. It requires an honestly about yourself with the relationships you have and how much control (consciously or subconsciously) you give these other relationships.

It also ins't about blame. It’s about understanding the people you surround yourselves with, and how they are impacting and influencing your decisions. 

Why your Who keeps you stuck: 

• They are threatened by you.
• They worry about how your changes will impact their lives
• They are concerned for your well-being and become overprotective
• Your progress reflects on their lack of progress and makes them feel bad

What happens if you decide to get unstuck yet someone really important to you wants to hold you back? Learn how to negotiate with your WHO. 

Outline your negotiation plan: 

• What do you want to ask for? 
• What are you willing to accept as the lowest common denominator? 
• Consider the objections 
• Consider the worries, fears and concerns that can come up 
• Think about how you can create comfort around those concerns 

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